On Leading with Joy

I’ve been thinking a lot about this concept of joy that has been thrust into the spotlight lately. Can women be joyful and powerful? Can they laugh and be taken seriously? Can anyone hold empathy and kindness paramount, and still lead successfully amongst harsh social constructs? 

There are 1000+ times in my own life when I haven’t been taken seriously. Because of youth, the tenor of my voice, or what someone once termed my “sweetness.” “Don’t underestimate her because she’s sweet,” someone once said about me. Was that a compliment, or a warning? 

Looking at Kamala Harris and her joyful laughter, her smiles, her dancing, and I cannot help but be both in awe and jealous. I’m in awe that she kicks down fucking doors with a smile and contagious laugh. I am jealous of her confidence and charisma. 

For too long, my vision has been filled with singular archetypes of people in power. Jaded, battle worn, perhaps unkind, and certainly not warm. There are the occasional bright spots, but the scars borne often obscure the kind words and mentorship. 

I do give myself credit. I may not have been a prosecutor, but I can be fierce when I need to. I may look to empathy first, but that doesn’t mean I’m not strategic. I laugh, I’m vulnerable, and I truly enjoy my work and the people around me. 

As I grapple with my own multitudes, it’s been a tremendous few weeks to see more of the world internalize that joy and laughter are weapons of their own kinds. It’s been amazing to watch VP Harris show the world that she can command, be kind, and be smarter than everyone else in the room with the brightest of smiles. 

I didn’t know how badly I needed to see that - but I suppose the years since 2016 have wreaked havoc unseen. I feel so much joy right now. And yes, trepidation, but I’m grateful nonetheless. I’m excited to lean into the label of ‘joyful warrior’ and to see more of them flourish around me. 

So, all that to say: Thank you Kamala, for reminding me and all of us that our joy is our strength.

- Kat